How to Jerk Him Off Like a Pro

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How Self-Pleasure Can Give Your Immune System a Little Boost

You might think those private moments are just for fun, but guess what? They could also be helping you dodge the common cold. Research indicates that after a guy hits orgasm through masturbation, his white blood cell count actually increases compared to before. And since white blood cells are the frontline soldiers in your immune system, this little boost means your body is better prepared to fight off infections.

The folks at Mysteries of Love Academy love turning everyday intimacy into an unexpected health hack. So next time someone raises an eyebrow at your solo time, just tell them you’re not just indulging in pleasure - you’re giving your immune system a workout too.

What Happens When He Reaches Orgasm

So, the big moment arrives-he’s about to climax. Naturally, you might catch yourself thinking, “Okay, what’s next?” Don’t worry, it’s simpler than it sounds. At this stage, your main focus is on just two things: where he releases and how gentle or firm your touch should be.

• Where he shoots his load
• How much pressure to apply

Let’s start with the first: where exactly does he unleash that magic? This is totally up to you. If you’re into it, you can invite him to ejaculate into your mouth. Down it or spit it out-your call. Naked? Why not let him cover your face, neck, breasts, or any other canvas-like spot you fancy. Hands work too for those who find that irresistible. Honestly, preferences here can range from ‘Heck yes’ to a polite ‘No thanks.’ If you’re not on birth control, just be mindful not to have his release slip into your vagina-unplanned surprises are not the kind of mysteries Mysteries of Love Academy encourages.

Our team at Mysteries of Love Academy even conducted a survey of 740 women and men, digging into what turns people on or off when it comes to facials, swallowing, and preferred spots to finish. Turns out, there’s a rich variety, proving that when it comes to intimacy, one size definitely does not fit all.

If the idea of him going all over your body isn’t your thing, that’s perfectly fine. He can aim for his own body or another convenient location. After all, the key is mutual comfort and pleasure.

Now, onto the second point: how much pressure to apply? When he’s ejaculating, the sensitivity of his penis skyrockets. At this moment, what felt great just a second ago can suddenly feel like too much. This is where you need to ease up-loosen your grip, slow the pace, and keep things comfortable so he doesn’t cringe or pull away.

Fun fact: many women face a similar challenge with their clitoris at climax-touch goes from amazing to ouch in zero seconds. Guys mostly experience this heightened sensitivity too, so tuning into how he’s feeling pays off big time.

Want to turn finishing into a performance that has him shouting your name? Mysteries of Love Academy’s guide on giving great head is packed with tips to get you there.

Oh, and a little insider info-if you find yourself thrilled by controlling his pleasure during these moments, congratulations, you might be what we call a Pleasure Dom. Just one of many delicious labels you might wear in your intimacy adventure.

Hand Stimulation Technique: The Ring

When your creative mojo for new hand stimulation tricks runs dry, don’t panic. The Ring is a deceptively simple method from Mysteries of Love Academy that can spice things up without much effort. All you need to do is form an "O" shape by gently tapping your index finger and thumb tips together.

Instead of wrapping your entire hand around your partner’s shaft like a basic wrap job, use just this petite "O" to glide him up and down. It’s like giving precision attention-small in size but mighty in sensation. Your man will definitely notice the difference.

Pair The Ring with another classic from Mysteries of Love Academy, The Escalator technique, and the experience transforms completely. The combination amps up excitement and turns a mundane hand job routine into a memorable adventure. Trust us, it’s a subtle but game-changing move.

Curious for more? Dive into "29 new things to try in bed." Your love life will thank you.

Mastering Masturbation: Tips to Elevate Your Solo Sessions

When it comes to pleasuring yourself, there’s no one-size-fits-all manual. But the good news? There are plenty of ways to dial up the fun and discover new layers of satisfaction. At Mysteries of Love Academy, we like to think of masturbation as an art form-one you can constantly refine and enjoy.

Let’s explore some of the best techniques that can take your solo time from routine to remarkable. Whether you’re a curious beginner or a seasoned pro, these 15 tips will inspire you to experiment and find what really works for your body.

Set the Scene for Success

Creating the right atmosphere isn’t just for romantic dates. Lighting a candle, playing some mood music, or simply ensuring privacy can transform your experience. Think of your solo time as a precious appointment with yourself-one worthy of ambiance and attention.

Shake Up Your Positions

Stuck in the same old routine? Changing positions can bring surprising sensations. Whether lying down, sitting, standing, or even experimenting with a little yoga twist, shifting how you move helps keep things fresh and exciting.

Savor the Moment - Don’t Rush

Patience pays off. Taking your time means exploring every nuance of pleasure instead of racing straight to the finish line. Slow down, get curious about what feels good, and enjoy the journey rather than just the destination.

Lubricants: Your New Best Friend

A bit of slickness can go a long way. Using a quality lubricant reduces friction, increases comfort, and opens up possibilities for new strokes and sensations that dry hands simply can’t deliver.

Listen to Your Body’s Signals

Mindfulness isn’t just for meditation-it’s also a secret weapon for better masturbation. Tune in closely to what your body tells you. Notice subtle pleasures, shifts in sensation, and build-up of arousal. Respond accordingly, and you’ll be amazed at how intensely satisfying solo sessions can become.

Try Switching Hands

If you usually stick to your dominant hand, give the other a whirl. It might feel awkward at first, but using your “southpaw” can introduce different rhythms and touches, sparking new sensations you didn’t know you were missing.

Add Hip Movement

Masturbation isn’t just about your hand. Incorporating gentle hip thrusts adds depth and variation, engaging your entire pelvis and making the experience more dynamic and full-bodied.

Mix Up Your Stroke Patterns

Vary speed, pressure, and direction. Sometimes slow and steady wins the race; other times quick bursts keep things spicy. Different strokes can wake up different nerve endings and keep your pleasure senses alert.

Explore Beyond the Penis

Your genitals are not just about the penis. The scrotum, perineum, and inner thighs hold plenty of sensitive spots worth exploring. Give them some love-it’s like discovering hidden treasure right under your nose.

Don’t Forget Your Whole Body

Pleasure isn’t confined to just one area. Rubbing your chest, nipples, neck, or even toes can amplify sensations and make the whole experience richer. Being adventurous with your touch is part of what Mysteries of Love Academy encourages.

Prostate Play: An Untapped Source of Pleasure

For those ready to venture deeper, prostate stimulation offers an intense and different type of orgasm. It might sound intimidating, but with proper guidance-like the kind you’ll find in our courses-it can open a whole new chapter of pleasure.

Try Edging for Longer Pleasure

Edging is all about bringing yourself close to the edge of orgasm, then backing off and building up again. This tease-and-release technique can lead to stronger, longer-lasting climaxes and a thrilling control-play dynamic.

Introduce Toys for Extra Fun

Inviting sex toys into your solo play isn’t just for couples. Vibrators, sleeves, and prostate massagers can add texture and sensation that hands can’t replicate. Mysteries of Love Academy often highlights how toys can be trusted sidekicks to your pleasure journey.

Refresh Your Visuals

Switching up your adult content keeps your brain engaged. Whether it’s different genres, scenarios, or fantasies, changing what you watch-or even listening to erotic audio-can spark fresh excitement and creativity.

Let Your Imagination Run Wild

Fantasizing is the original pleasure enhancer. Whether daydreaming about past encounters, future possibilities, or totally made-up scenarios, your imagination can be the wild card that makes solo sessions unforgettable.

Make It a Main Course, Not Just a Quick Bite

Calling it a "job" might be tempting when it comes to intimacy, but let's face it - nobody ever wants it to feel like one, whether you're the one giving or receiving. That's the honest insight from the experts at Mysteries of Love Academy. Imagine approaching the act with genuine enthusiasm, aiming to please your partner, just like you'd hope they'd do for you when the roles are reversed.

Think about it: nobody enjoys a speedy round that feels rushed, like someone dipping their toe in for a few seconds, then suddenly asking "you good?" and checking out. The same logic applies to handjobs. Three quick tugs and done? That’s not how passions stay ignited.

Of course, your preferences can always shift during intimate moments, and that’s totally okay. But if you're ready to indulge in a handjob session, make it meaningful, a highlight of your shared experience rather than just ticking off a boring checklist item. At Mysteries of Love Academy, we believe every touch should count.